Some love is to disappoint.
Not everything must be tied, but some love is not tied. People are willing to wave away those infatuations, just like the waves and sunshine, and they will live a lifetime.
Wang Anyi’s novel, Song of Eternal Sorrow, mainly tells a cruel story about a typical sea woman named Wang Qiyao. However, Hou Hsiao-hsien still made it into a film, and Ding Hei also made it into a TV play and gained a good reputation. I think people can accept this cruelty in large part because there is a Mr. Cheng in Wang Qiyao, who is a story and a pillar in the audience’s mind, and will be lost at any time in love.
Wang Qiyao loved four men in forty years, but she never became one of them. She can accept being the fourth lover of Li for several years, waiting for even a few days. She can accept a man who can’t marry her, Kang Xun, who has a baby and is willing to have another father, Sasha. She can accept a young man who has tasted the old sea and given up his old age and dignity. She just can’t accept the infatuation. She can give her wife a name at any time in her life, Mr. Cheng.
When she was nineteen years old, she met Mr. Cheng earlier than the other four men. Mr. Cheng discovered her beauty and spread it. She became the third young lady in everyone’s eyes. Even though she had become a lover of another man, Mr. Cheng was able to understand her and spared no effort to help her. When Wang Qiyao gave birth to another man, Mr. Cheng was by her side, but that man was not with him all his life. Even though several courtiers were still Wang Qiyao and single Wang Qiyao was his department, he could be arrested at any time and place. A little bit of Wang Qiyao is his luxury. He has given her a noble imagination and kept an elusive desire. But he has always been cheap in front of Wang Qiyao, including his love, which is not worth caring about.
Hou Hsiao-hsien has a natural compassion for women. At the end of the film, he let Wang Qiyao die first, and Mr. Cheng has to face this last one cruelly. But Wang Anyi didn’t let Cheng Xian live or die, and Wang Qiyao left her alone to fight against the next life. In fact, this is the greatest cruelty to Wang Qiyao. After she lost the man at the bottom, she was pessimistic and no one took a look. She finally ruined herself with all her strength.
Mr. Cheng’s love is to live up to his infatuation, which is like a bottom hole. In the end, he will remain disappointed all his life. Wang Qiyao said gratitude to him, but he never said a word of love. This kind of love is so humble that Mr. Cheng has no choice but to release his love as much as he can. Even if this kind of love is riddled with holes, he wants to give it to her all at once, but he knows that if Wang Qiyao refuses him, he will turn his back and simply don’t want to tie it. It is good to be with her.
The cruelest part of this kind of disappointment lies in the fact that the betrayed people keep their faith every day and generally keep their loyalty to love. However, most of their lovers don’t miss them at all in their daily lives. A moth throws a flame, and there is no root in a field everywhere. The most terrible thing is that there is no opponent to fight, but those Mr. Cheng can finally hold their enthusiasm and try their best to play beautifully even if they play.
Jin Yuelin, a well-known man, was also a member of Mr. Cheng. At first, Xu Zhimo introduced him to Lin Huiyin, but after Lin Huiyin refused him, he immediately changed the battlefield to pursue Lu Xiaoman. But Jin Yuelin was honest and fell in love with Lin Huiyin at first sight, but he couldn’t let it go.
Because Liang Sicheng is well protected in Lin Huiyin, Jin Yuelin actually has nothing to do. He can live very close to Liang’s family. When he is in her salon, he must attend Jin Yuelin. This kind of love is actually even more terrible. It is possible to know that Lin Huiyin is married and no longer together, but he still needs to love.
Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng really knew Jin Yuelin’s thoughts, but they couldn’t do anything, and they could keep this deep affection in their hearts. However, Jin Yuelin didn’t reveal that one day after Lin Huiyin’s death, he gathered some good friends in the Beijing Hotel, and everyone was confused and didn’t often entertain guests. What was the grand occasion of Jin Lao until he announced before the meeting that today was Lin Huiyin’s birthday, and everyone was crying.
In fact, in Jin Lao’s heart, his love for Lin Huiyin has always been close and private. Most people go to Jin Lao to write a preface to Lin Huiyin. Jin Lao said that I don’t write and I want to talk. She said alone that maybe Lin Huiyin belongs to him in his heart. After Lin Huiyin’s death, his son Liang Congjie has been living with Jin Lao and calling him Jin Dad. He really treats him as a parent.
When Lin Huiyin was alive, Jin Yuelin didn’t allow himself to overstep the etiquette, behave himself and behave himself. At best, he could be a friend. After Lin Huiyin’s death, Jin Yuelin opened his heart and completed the ceremony of loving her bit by bit. Jin Lao’s love was let down more thoroughly. She didn’t even have a chance to do something around Lin Huiyin, but he was willing.
Now it seems that we can also say that he loves her all his life, but when everything happens every day and every night, when no one knows how ripples will form in their hearts, they will feel sorry for themselves. It’s sad, but in the end, they will give up their arms and understand.
A good friend of mine has been chasing a girl for four years and is still chasing her. Her boyfriends have changed two times. When I talk to him, I will persuade him to say forget it. It’s been four years. People would have agreed if they wanted to, but he said with a nonchalant look that when she goes the right way, she will definitely find me better and I will still accept her. I can say that I am thinking about you in my heart. She will turn back when she is down and out, but she will be more and more frustrated if she wants you at the bottom.
Many times love ends like this.
It’s important to keep your passion for exploration for your lover.
We are used to being curious about all the people in the world. Things elsewhere seem to attract us inexplicably. We always want to look out, but we have never been patient. If you don’t believe me, just look at the people around you and me.
I often hear the old lady complain that the old man has been stubborn for a generation since he was young, and I don’t know how much he lost when he was old, so he will hate iron and not produce. Like a middle-aged woman, she gnashed her teeth and said that I saw his honesty when she got married. If it weren’t for this, I would have divorced him long ago, and of course my cute sister would talk about her boyfriend angrily, saying that it would be nice to be still. I think he will always be like this, and the future will be better. I don’t want us now.
Occasionally, watching blind date shows is almost a woman’s standard. Yes, it’s hard for a woman to enter a man. The fact is that in many cases, even if a man tries his best to change the status quo, a woman may not be able to see the slogan: Is the woman’s eyes covered or is the woman’s old man stubborn? But has he really become more and more easy to compromise? Can’t you see that the man has saved money for your birthday for several months and bought you your favorite bag? Has he not become more romantic? Meng Mei said that she wants her boyfriend to keep the status quo and be her good sister. Men have become better one by one.
This is the woman. They have a unified evaluation system for men, but they don’t even have a standard for themselves. They want men to make changes, but they don’t have the time or ability to pay attention to these changes. Girls are eager to entertain parents with hexagrams, but they are not interested in exploring the man who once loved to death. In the final analysis, it is ridiculous that women give men a full paper. The problem is that women are more irresponsible than incompetent teachers in checking and correcting papers in their spare time. But if women give men more enthusiasm for observation, you will find that the quality of life will greatly increase. Many times, women don’t feel happy because they don’t
I envy Miss Sugar very much. After we met, I watched her change from a naive girl to an intellectual woman today, just like watching her graduate from it. In other words, in the school of love, she should be able to get a big diploma, and it is definitely not a problem to develop her master’s degree and doctor’s degree in the future.
She is ignorant and innocent every day, but her heart is not bad. Naive and kind friends all hope that she can find a boyfriend with a big brother type to protect her innocent heart. Contrary to her wishes, she found a punk who was almost taken away by the police. When she told us, we almost overturned the table and warned her that such a crime scene would be the end of the family. We were able to intimidate words, but petite she sat there with a calm look. She said that I would take care of him, but we were startled.
We meet almost once a year. Every time we meet, Miss Sugar will call Mr. Bump. Before he was together, she forced him to find a welder apprentice. A year later, Mr. Bump was able to take two apprentices. I quietly told Miss Sugar that it was not easy for him to be so calm. Miss Jiao Jiao grabbed Mr. Bump’s hand with a smile as if she didn’t notice me sneaking around and told me sweetly that you didn’t know he couldn’t be free. Several of his workers organized a band. I can’t rehearse until the weekend. Mr. Gangster is embarrassed to say that I can’t actually sing once. She went to sing K. She has to say that after I sang, she invited friends to watch me sing several times. They all thought that I sang well. I just tried my best. I joked that I wouldn’t let you sing. What are you embarrassed about? They both smiled at each other and were warm and harmonious. I think it is possible for them to continue to develop.
When we met again, Mr. Hooligan was already in a suit and tie. I almost didn’t recognize Miss Sugar. I was surprised to say that he had been transferred to a machinery factory to work as a small foreman and a small official. I nodded and said that he was promoted too fast, so I tried to ask if he had done a good job. At your rate, he would be the factory director in a few years. Miss Sugar smiled and said that it was all tinkering around. He broke the vision of the washing machine, and then our family’s brain was messed up. I had studied how to fix the brain, so I bought some for him at that time, which day he didn’t want to do welding. It was also good to repair the brain in a shop. When he was fine, he looked at it. I didn’t expect the owner of the machinery factory to go to their place to weld things. When chatting, he said that his brain was broken. He said that he would fix it and then fiddled with it, but it was really repaired. Since then, he has become a friend of the factory director and people have taken care of him before letting him pass.
When Miss Sugar got married, I went to their garage. Mr. Gangster has also hired a brain repair shop besides working in a machinery factory. Miss Sugar is acting like a female boss. I joked with Mr. Gangster about what skills I have learned recently. He scratched his head and said with a smile, when will I go when I am busy making money every day? I think this is also good. Ms. Sugar has enough to eat, wear warm clothes and occasionally sing.
Almost four or five years after they got married, one day I suddenly arrived. What they gave me was a pillow with a photo of Miss Sugar printed on it. I was curious about how they could make such a thing. Miss Sugar said that I sewed and talked about making pillows and cushions at home. One day when I saw the sale of private pillows, I asked him if he could make them for me. At first, he was tired of it, but I wanted to do it myself, so I gave him a lot of tutorials, forcing him to watch. He said that he wanted to try to buy equipment, so he did it. I almost screamed at the sky and thought of those golden couple around me who broke up and quarreled
One wedding anniversary, Mr. Gangster wrote a paragraph in QQ’s signature. Thank you, sugar. You have been encouraging me to find out that I have grown from a bad young man to a child’s father and your husband. Thank you for giving me a chance to change my life. I will give your child a better life. Miss Sugar left a message saying that her husband is great and excellent because of you. Thank you for giving me such a wonderful life.
I think if Mr. Bump didn’t meet Miss Sugar, but met a woman who was obsessed with his past, his life would not be like this. By the way, I forgot to mention that when Miss Sugar was a private kindergarten teacher, I would think that she had trained Mr. Bump so well. Maybe it was thanks to her work that she regarded Mr. Bump as her own kindergarten student who didn’t even know words, but she was enthusiastic to discover and encourage him to shine and make him grow up.
One person is a world, and two people love each other, that is, two worlds may collide, and whether they can accept things or not, but in the process of gradual integration, if they are a little more curious, a little more courageous and a little more patient, two people will change a lot, and life will be much longer and unbearable. If people are fresh, the world is fresh. This may be the secret book of love preservation.
On the other hand, to protect one’s passion for exploring one’s lover is also to protect one’s passion for life. It seems that it will lead to a big life pattern and make the people in it more lively. When we complain that life is boring, we often don’t reflect on the subject. Are our eyes and hearts covered by dust? It is not that the environment remains unchanged, but that our hearts are still.
If you want not to be overwhelmed by life, explore your lover. Maybe he will give you a big surprise if you are regarded for a long time.
You don’t know that’s just teasing.
It’s as bad as being spoiled and ambiguous.
Miss Maruko was in love with Mr Busy for ten years, from sixteen to twenty-six. Of course, before the age of twenty-three, Mr Busy was still Mr Confused. Ordinary college students were no different. At that time, Mr Confused was Miss Maruko. Even in the two days of the college entrance examination, he rushed to the classroom to send Miss Maruko home, so she could sleep a little longer. Although Miss Maruko was a good student, she chose Mr Confused to apply for two colleges and universities in order to be together. It is expected that there is no pressure for two people to be deeply attached to each other.
After graduating from college, Mr. Confused became Mr. Busy. Because there was nothing to follow his parents’ arrangement, he found a medical salesman in his hometown in the city. Although he was not a public institution, he was well paid. His parents promised him to do a good job for a few years and save enough money to buy a house before Miss Maru could get married. They would never interfere, but now they can never live together.
Mr. Busy assured Miss Maruko that he would buy a house as soon as possible. Miss Maruko said that I don’t care about the room. Mr. Busy kept explaining that it was not that I didn’t want you to get married, but that my parents didn’t want me to fight for it several times. To tell the truth, it was their concern that if two people live together now and can’t save money, don’t talk about getting married and have no room, it is estimated that children will spend so much money soon, and then they will definitely get everything ready before they are young.
Mr. Busy was sure that there was nothing she could do after work, so Miss Maru found an editor in the big city. She thought that it would not take long to work. After two or three years, she went to Mr. Busy. It was about five hours’ drive from two places in the city. Mr. Busy went to see her when she was busy from cold to summer, and Miss Maru gradually adapted to this life. She felt that it was good to be separated from her than to be newly married.
When the holiday is bigger than Valentine’s Day, Miss Maruko’s birthday, Children’s Day and Girls’ Day, Mr. Busy will prepare gifts early and give her a surprise gift that day. When she is full of thoughts, she will have a pair of high heels, a lipstick or a bottle of perfume, all of which are Miss Maruko’s things.
Miss Maruko’s 24th birthday is the first birthday after they parted. She waited for the gift with great expectation. She occasionally thought that it would be nice if she didn’t have a gift. That day, she secretly smiled and thought of him and her coming in a hurry. It was very sweet, but at noon, he hadn’t arrived at Miss Maruko’s dinner. When he came, she was embarrassed to ask him, so she continued to wait until the last bus in the evening. There was still no movement over there. Miss Maruko was so angry that she called to know that she was busy. Mr. Busy was having dinner with his colleagues, and she couldn’t help shouting goodbye and crying, so she hung up. Mr. Busy wanted to call him inexplicably and ask what was going on. He went to see her recent status and suddenly realized the seriousness of the matter when he saw a friend leave her a message wishing her a happy birthday.
After a busy day, Mr. Busy borrowed a friend’s car without eating and went to Miss Maru’s city. He was too nervous to prepare a gift. He thought it would always be better if someone arrived. After 10 o’clock in the middle of the night, he arrived and cried. Miss Maru gave him the door and saw that he turned around and left. He didn’t see his face tired. He tried to apologize to her and said that he was too busy to accompany the boss to talk about business today. He really forgot what he could say. Miss Maru didn’t stop crying and didn’t even give him a chance to hug.
Mr. Busy guessed that she rolled up her sleeves before eating and wanted to make some noodles for her to eat, but she couldn’t find the noodles with a rolling pin. She could pick up a bowl and roll the noodles bit by bit. Mr. Busy loves Khan, etc. After rolling the noodles, her clothes would be soaked, but he wanted her to eat so much noodles before twelve o’clock. Before the hot stove, she cooked the noodles at eleven o’clock. Like finishing a worry, he excitedly held them in front of Miss Maruko. She smiled and looked at Miss Maruko motionless without even looking. Mr. Busy said, Let me feed you. Miss Mar
Twelve o’clock passed, and the face was getting cold, but neither of them took a bite. Mr. Busy’s fire was already lit. If he was not too tired, he wanted to go back by car and thought that maybe one day she would forgive him. So he slept on the sofa for one night. When Mr. Busy woke up the next day, Miss Maruko had gone to work and didn’t eat breakfast. Mr. Busy didn’t even wash his face, so he hitchhiked to buy breakfast for Miss Maruko. His colleagues were all there. Miss Maruko was embarrassed to say something, so he said something lukewarm. Mr. Busy In order to think that maybe her anger will subside in a few days, a week later, Miss Maru took the initiative to contact him, saying that he was not good enough to understand him. Mr. Busy also apologized and said that he was relieved that he didn’t end a quarrel. He asked several friends for help and must remember to wake up his birthday.
Love streams and sands slowly consume energy and at the same time keep energy so that love can last for a long time.
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